For Men Only

Shaunti Feldhahn & Jeff Feldhahn

We are in counseling.  We are fine, good actually.  But, for a long time I have liked my sister's philosophy that you get a check up for your physical health every so often why not your marriage?  Then Michael's parents shared with us that they are getting a divorce and that pretty much pushed us into finding someone to help us handle this in a Godly way.  We looked, but there are no guide books for when your parents give up on 34 years... but I digress and get less Godly.  Anyway, our counselor reccommended this and For Women Only which is next on my list.  I liked it.  I thought a lot of it was really true.  I thought it was an easy read and I think both of us reading both of these will make us a better couple.  The lessons were not rocket science to me, but I think will be revealing to my husband.  I laughed out loud at the section about why men can't follow women's conversations that jump all over everywhere.  My dad always gets frustrated with my mom, sister and I for that.  Jeff explained it perfectly!  I would definitely reccommend this quick read for you and your spouse.  (Ladies you read this first, men you do the opposite, then switch!)